Ways to enhance sex with your wife you give him a little gratitude, it's a huge bonding moment for him. This will help you reconnect with each other on a whole new level. Pick a place you've never been and order a dish you've never had. Working out gives you a sense of pride and accomplishment, says Berman. For example, the increased stimulation to the G-spot that occurs when a man enters his partner from behind can help the woman reach orgasm. To reestablish the bond, do something that makes you feel good in your skin at least once a day — treat yourself to a massage, go apple picking with your kids, wear the jeans that give you an ego boost the minute you slide them on.