But my Tim was heartbroken when I told him and he begged me to stay…i made the choice to keep him and both our families happy…maybe Bride and bridesmaid sex is what Belinda is doing? Bride and bridesmaid sex junior bridesmaid is a girl who is clearly too young to be married, but who is included as an honorary bridesmaid. That being said, there is definitely some responsibility you should take for this: End things with Tim. And then celebrate in the gift of knowing that what you thought you lost was entirely found anew again. We expect them to have impeccable moral understanding of their behavior.